As I have shared before in previous posts, I have been quite lucky when it comes to finding veg-friendly meals in a wide variety of local dining establishments: vegetable-stir fry dishes at both Stir Crazy and Ricky Ly's Thai Gourmet, a pasta-vegetable dish at Giovanni's; but then of course there was that ill-fated meal at Red - not only was my meal less-than-satisfactory (you may recall me describing it as looking like "Cinderella's pumpkin carriage after suffering a tragic accident on the way to the palace ball" - and it didn't have much flavor either), but the service was quite rude as well (not only to me, but to my family as well).
Now granted, since Red is a steakhouse, I know that I should not expect to go there and find a vegan section on the menu; but the fact that nothing at all on their menu is vegan- or even vegetarian-friendly (or food-allergy friendly, for that matter!), is unacceptable in today's society, in my opinion. And thankfully, I am not the only one who thinks this - my entire family (bless their hearts) expressed outrage about the fact that there were no alternative dishes available on the menu, for people who may not want to eat what the restaurant is known for (i.e. their steaks). Since I care more about the company I am with when dining out, I just decided to forget about this lousy meal experience at Red (especially since the reason we were at the restaurant was more important - it was my grandfather's 90th birthday!).
I thought that my encounters with Red (which can also be referred to as "A Vegan's Worst Nightmare") were through, after this one experience; but little did I know that my great-aunt (my grandfather's sister) had chosen Red as her "restaurant-of-choice" to celebrate her birthday, just a few weeks ago. When my parents revealed this piece of information to me (carefully, since they knew I would not exactly be thrilled about it), I must admit that my aunt (whom I deeply care for and adore) was not my favorite person at this moment - however, this is for her birthday, so there was no way that I was going to miss the celebration.
I tried to figure out what I could do, in order to avoid consuming another "Cinderella-pumpkin-carriage-gone-wrong" entrèe: should I just eat before/after going to the celebration dinner at Red? bring food with me? I was definitely at a loss, as to what I should do so that I could not only enjoy the company of my family for my great-aunt's birthday, but have a decent meal as well. I felt quite selfish about wanting to be accommodated (especially at a steakhouse restaurant), but I should not have to forgo a meal in the name of a restaurant's ignorance to dietary restrictions/lifestyles! Fortunately, my dad came to the rescue (as always, haha) - after informing the restaurant of our previous meal (both the food and the service), and that there is no reason why someone who can't eat their "main attraction" can't have a meal-option available to him/her, my dad told me to expect a phone call at home, from Red, a few days before my great-aunt's dinner celebration. Unsure of what to expect from this mystery phone call, I remained hopeful that something good would come out of it.
When I received the phone call, I was quite shocked at how successful (and long) it was - not only did the head manager of Red deeply apologize for how I (and the rest of my family, for that matter) was treated and served for dinner the night of my last experience there (and he told me how funny my description of the dish was, as well, haha), but he then handed the phone over to the head chef. The head chef was extremely nice and said that he has cooked vegan meals before (hmm... then put some of those vegan meals on your menu, please!!), and that we could work together to create the perfect meal for me to enjoy, during my upcoming dining-visit to Red. After spending about 45 minutes on the phone with the chef, we came up with a meal that sounded delicious - however, I wouldn't know how it tasted (or looked, for that matter) until my great-aunt's birthday celebration dinner.
Once we arrived at Red, I felt like shouting, "There's a vegan is in the house!!" - but I resisted, so that I would blend in somewhat ;0) After everyone else ordered their meals, and my dad informed our waiter of my "specially-prepared entrèe by the chef," it was finally getting closer to the verdict here (whether or not Red/the chef could satisfy "unconventional" customers' tastes). Once my entrée arrived, everyone was impressed with how it looked (as was I); and everyone waited as I picked up my fork, and went in for the first, crucial bite - the one that would either destroy Red's chances at being tolerated by me, forever, or the one that would make me want to actually dine at this steakhouse, voluntarily. So, which one ended up being the verdict?
The verdict was the one that would make me want to actually dine at Red (a steakhouse, remember) voluntarily!! Now I will be the first to admit that the photograph does not do the contents of my "special vegan meal" justice - it really did have a much more appealing presentation that did my previous meal at Red (no resemblance to a crashed pumpkin carriage! whoo hoo! haha).
Nestled on a bed of simmered, four-spiced lentils (my favorite legume!) was a hearty medley of sautèed swiss chard, garlic, and a cipollini-onion compote. You may notice that there is a yellow ring, framing the lentils - that is the extra-virgin olive oil used to sautè/cook everything. To say that the chef at Red isn't shy with using olive oil in his dishes, is an understatement - there was at least one bottle's worth of olive oil used on my dish alone; but hey, I need the calories, and olive oil is chock-full of healthy monounsaturated fats - so I forgive the chef for drenching my plate in olive oil :0) Words cannot even begin to describe just how delectable, flavorful, and satisfying this dish was; and I'm actually looking forward to going back to Red, just to eat it again!! A vegan wanting to dine in a steakhouse? Is this a joke? No, I'm afraid it's not - the meal was just that good (as was the celebration for my great-aunt's birthday!! the whole reason for going to Red in the first place!).
At the end of our meals, the chef came out to our table, to see how everyone's meals were - but then he said that he especially wanted to know how "his vegan customer" liked her meal. I informed him just how much I loved it, and that I really appreciated him calling me at home, ahead of time, to make sure that he completely understood what vegans can/cannot eat (and understood what type of meal/ingredients that I wanted to consume). Even though I did not want to go anywhere near Red in the first place, let alone return for a second visit, I am quite happy that I got a chance to dine there again - congratulations to Red for redeeming itself!! Hopefully more restaurants like this one (i.e. "Vegan Nightmares," like steakhouses) will consider other potential diners/customers - even if these restaurants decide not to focus on vegan diners, they should at least focus on diners who have food allergies/dietary restrictions. Hey, if Red can do it now, then so can a lot of other restaurants!!
**I just wanted to give a heads up to all of you that my next post will for sure be dedicated to the fabulous Thanksgiving feast that occurred today; so stay tuned for that. In the meantime, I hope everyone had a lovely, delicious Thanksgiving holiday!! :0)

25 comments:
i'm so glad you were brave enough to venture our to Red not only the first time, but a second. what awesome service and how polite of the head chef to give you a house call. it's hard to believe such a biased meat-based restaurant was able to suit a vegan's needs :) the meal does look quite yummy! and i can't wait to see your thanksgiving post!!
wow, yeah olive oil city! but really nice of the chef to call, and it does look tasty. Score one point for us vegans!
You are a trooper and so admirable for going back to Red. Thank goodness your meal turned out to be a success... Can you imagine the chef coming out to check on your meal if it had been yucky? Can you say awkward!?
Thanks to you and your last post, I made Dreena's Maple Pecan Sticky Blondies for my family tonight. Success! Thank you! They reminded me of a cookie cake...and after my super-picky sister finished a piece, she was like, "Wait...That was vegan?" For some reason that stubborn girl thinks that vegan has to mean rabbit food. But in these cases, we just have to feel sorry for the people who don't know better (and who refuse to give our good stuff a chance).
hahaha, there's a vegan in the house. :)
I'm so glad Red redeemed himself and his restaurant! And that meal...umm I have to say it, YUM! Sounds right up my alley (minus just a bit of the oil cause I DON'T need the calories!).
I think you should have yelled "vegan in the house". You cracked me up with that one!
Plus good on you for going back, I tend to be one of those once burned twice shy people.
That's great! I've also found that some restaurants that don't seem very vegan-friendly at fist sight turn out to make delicious vegan food.
Let's hope that now they know how much vegan meals are appreciated, they will start putting them on the menu too :)
That's great, and a bravo to the chef for making you an outstanding meal in spite of his 'specialty'. Believe it or not, Outback Steak House made me a pretty good vegan meal last year when I was trapped there.
I'm glad your collaborative meal was enjoyable. I got to have that same sort of experience with a seafood restaurant. I got a personal phone call from the chef and all the questions about what I liked to eat. When my meal arrived under a cage of crisp fried noodles, every customer near me pointed and said "I want that!" But they couldn't have it cuz it was created just for me!
This was a cool post. It shows that if you take the time to ask for what you want/need the universe(and many times) the chefs will be happy to add something you can eat to the menu. But a steakhouse, yes I am impressed! Good going Liz!
I'm so happy for you! But really, you ARE the customer so they should accommodate you, no matter how strange the request may be.
One of the reasons I don't dine out is because of vegan issues but you have given me courage to get out of my comfort zone ^^
thats cool! i wish every place was so accommodating
Good for you, challenging the chef and letting him know that not everyone likes steak and he should have other options on the menu!
Your meal looks and sounds way better than any steak!
Glad it all worked out--to their credit. Good for you for speaking up, and good for your family for standing behind you.
I once ate at Denny's--and they didn't have a single vegan or even vegetarian thing on the menu. So I ordered the mushroom burger and had them hold the burger and cook the mushrooms in oil. There's always a solution!
I am so glad that this visit was a much better one. The manager of Red must really care about his customers and reputation to go that extra mile. High five to the chef. I don't think that our local steak house would do the same. You were blessed to be around wonderful family and good food. I can't wait to see your Thanksgiving spread. By the way, Thank you for your visit and kind words. I cry and the drop of a pin and I so appreciate your friendship. :o)
Events like this are what open the eyes to restaurants and chefs of people like us.
Can you imagine if all of vegans committed to going to a steakhouse in the next month. Call ahead of time and tell them you're vegan, ask if they have anything on the menu. If they don't, ask if they can accomodate.
And, if we have friends and family in the area who can do the same thing...maybe a few weeks or a month later... IMAGINE the difference this could make!
These are the things we vegans need to do...let restaurants OTHER then vegetarian and vegan restaurants "know we're out there."
Here is something else I do...I call up restaurants in my area and ask if they have vegan menu options and/or organic wine (I know ahead of time they don't). At least I'm putting a bug in their ear, right? I then have my mom or boyfriend do it a few weeks/month later and then again.
We should all do this. This is how we make a difference.
What a great story! I love that your dad got behind you so supportively, that you were brave enough to be the "weird vegan having the special phone conversation," that the manager and chef stepped up and were lovely and helpful, and that the whole thing turned out so positively. Very, very cool.
That's very cool. :) I always hate going out to eat with friends or my boyfriend, because none of them are vegetarians, much less vegans! So I think it's great that they accommodated you so well!
Great post! I seriously love how supportive your parents are of your diet. You are very lucky and loved by them.
As someone who has cooked in restaurants it is very easy for most places to accommodate customers eating preferences. It's a shame when a place won't though.
yay - that's awesome! i'm very glad to hear that it worked out for you!!
Hey, what luck. I've always been afraid to call ahead and just end up having a salad or the vegetable sides. I'm glad yours turned out so well!
one of those "no offense, but..." posts, Serena?
there must be another way for you to express your concern re: Liz's weight, instead of telling her she looks "scary". as in, sending her an email written in a tactful manner perhaps?
I'm glad everything worked out for you. You must really love your family to accompany them to a steakhouse, and they must really love you to scare the manager and head chef into ringing you up to apologise!
I've always been pleasantly surprised when getting a chance to talk to a chef about my special dietary needs. It seems most chefs are more than happy and welcome the challenge to create dishes that their customers will love and come back for (some just happen to be constrained by the franchises they work in) so it really does pay to give them the chance. My hubby called our favorite restaurant - a little bistro that is run at the inn where we got married - and he arranged a special meal just for me one night and has exchanged emails with us and has made us feel most welcome so that we will continue to call him ahead and let him know when we are coming for special occasions and get to enjoy his cooking talents while feeling totally at ease about what I'm eating. :)
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