VeggieGirl: Episode 14 of VeggieGirl TV: It's Time To Stop Being Polite and Start Getting Real

Friday, May 1, 2009

Episode 14 of VeggieGirl TV: It's Time To Stop Being Polite and Start Getting Real

April came and went in the blink of an eye, proving yet again that time passes by with incredible speed. And with time fleeting so quickly, I believe that it is important to briefly reflect on the past, and prepare for the future.

This past week marked the end of the semester for me - it finally arrived!! The end of classes (as well as giving myself a break) left me with a little more time to ponder about the future and some changes that could potentially be made - especially concerning my blog.

This leads to the main topic of today's blog post and video:

You may have noticed a lack of VeggieGirl in the blogging world this past week. What's the deal, you may be wondering? Is this "blog commenting hiatus" going to continue?

Allow me to bluntly explain in Episode 14 of VeggieGirl TV (**in roughly 8 minutes and 19 seconds**)...

I encourage all readers to delurk and (respectfully) provide feedback - thank you :-)

And please, have a lovely weekend!! Spend time with your loved ones, do something fun, and simply celebrate life.

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Meg C. said...: Good for you! Live your life, eff everyone else. You give so much as a blogger and 99% of the blogging world loves you. Screw the losers.; Friday, May 01, 2009
aimee said...: Hi Veggie Girl! Enjoy your break. You deserve it. Blogging is definitely not something you should be stressing about!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Nicole said...: You get 'em girl! I'm glad you took a break from the madness I can imagine it was getting to be too much. Don't worry about posting comments on my blog I know you care whether you comment or not:) Know that I appreciate what you do and all of the recipes and tips. Oooh, reading, I forget what that's like but 3 kids will do that to you, haha. Yeah for the end of the semester!!!! Enjoy your relaxing and yoga and I'll admire your freedom from afar:) Go Veggie dad!!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Kelly Weston kweston@hagerty.com said...: Hey, i'm a reader, enjoy seeing what you do, reading bout your baking and such. Its not right for people to say things like they have, its like most moms would say "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all" Enjoy your hiatus, best wishes!!; Friday, May 01, 2009
FoodsThatFit said...: Love it, love it!! A great reminder that the whole reason for blogging is for fun, not more stress :); Friday, May 01, 2009
CeciLiA said...: I'm speechless, I have no idea you are receiving such gutless and disgusting comments on your blog. You do not deserve that at all. Maybe you should just change your email/shut off the commenting feature for your posts?? So all in all, F-off losers, it's sad that there are people like you in this world.

Have a great hiatus Liz, you deserve it!! :D HUGS a million!; Friday, May 01, 2009
bitesoflife said...: You seriously made my night! I love that you stood up to all the negativity! You have to do what's BEST for you, screw what everyone else thinks! Enjoy your break, we'll be here waiting for you when you get back! :); Friday, May 01, 2009
peaceandpeanutbutter said...: Hey Veggie Girl,
I love reading your blog every week.

I'm so sorry you've had to deal with such negatively in the blog world - it's so uncalled for. I admire you for USING YOUR VOICE and putting your concerns and frustrations out there. Thank you for speaking up - and of course, for taking care of yourself.

Have a great weekend!

~Erika; Friday, May 01, 2009
Erin said...: I'm glad you are doing what you need to do for yourself! I can't imagine how time consuming it would be to comment on everyone's post. You're right. Everyone needs to slow down and keep this as a fun hobby. We need to enjoy LIFE!; Friday, May 01, 2009
reginarae said...: Keep taking that break, kiddo! I say, never feel pressured to comment. Keep reading those books and baking away! I love these posts. Don't pay attention to any lurking blogging nitwits. They're idiots. We love you!

And I think you look rockin'!

XoxOxoxO, Regina; Friday, May 01, 2009
Steph said...: Liz, I'm so glad your stress levels went down last week! Even though a post is not the same without a Veggiegirl comment, I'm happy that you were able to enjoy the other parts of your life. Sometimes, I let my google reader get pretty loaded and I know I don't read half as many blogs as you do. Your multitasking skills always amaze me, but there definitely has to be a balance.

I really hope you do continue to blog because the blogosphere definitely won't be the same without out you. Who else is as kind, has your unique sense of humour, bakes as many varieties of banana bread and blondies, does the dishes during a video post and shares vegan recipes like you do?!?! Veggiegirl posts are always fun to read and one of the first I go to when there are updates. It's been so much fun getting to know you. Your encouragement really goes a long way, especially in the beginning when everything was scary and intimidating.

Enjoy your weekend!! PS, I need to do some yoga myself or some form of exercise.. I just ate 1/6th of a cake today! No matter how yummy, I've never let myself do that. The stress of graduating is really getting to me. My friend calls it my existential crisis..haha; Friday, May 01, 2009
Jenny said...: VG i am in love with this post and YOU - you are so full of power and strength in this video and it is so contagious.. I understand every single thing you are saying and i am so proud of you for putting yourself first and taking this hiatus.. i am extremely happy to hear that it has brought such positivity and happiness in to you life - and for that reason, i definitely support the continuation of your break! i am always here for you whenever you need me and i feel so fortunate to have formed such a strong relationship with you outside of the blogosphere so we can still keep in contact :)

lots of love, pretty lady!
-Jenny; Friday, May 01, 2009
Marissa said...: I'm delurking to comment. You need to do what's best for you and what's going to make you happy! I can't believe people were posting things like that on your blog, and posting things about you on other people's. That's out of control. Truthfully, I hardly ever read or leave comments on blogs anymore because of all the negativity that tends to pop up. Don't let them get you down. I love reading your blog and I hope you keep it up!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Megan said...: aw veggie girl, i hate that people have been so mean to you! i LOVE you and your blog, and i'd hate to see it go away. i'm glad youre a strong girl and are dealing with this head-on. you deserve a break and if people are being bitches, they need to F off. you will always hear positivity from me!

p.s. looove your necklace. so cute!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Amy said...: Of COURSE we want to see you back. Good for you for standing up for yourself. We love reading you / seeing you no matter what and you shouldn't feel pressured to comment all the time. But please no, whenever you decide to de-lurk and post a special comment every oncei n a while I know that all of us will be really happy because your bright comments are the highlights of so many people.

I feel so sad that you've gotten so many negative comments. I don't get many comments in general, but I got my first negative one a couple weeks ago and I can agree that is SUCKED. I mean, we're all just doing this for fun, why must people be so negative and hurtful. You ARE FABULOUS! Don't listen to them!; Friday, May 01, 2009
sarahmegee said...: Hey Veggiegirl,

I'm so sorry that what was once an awesome and positive experience and hobby for you has turned into a negative, stressful and hurtful thing.

It should be fun and relaxing to blog and read others blogs not stressing yourself out trying to read and comment on every single persons blog just because they may leave a comment for you.

I hope that you stay strong, keep positive and do things because YOU want to, and not because you feel you should. I know that you want to please everyone because you're a perfectionist and it's part of your personality but sometimes you just need to think about YOUR sanity and YOUR health and well being.

As for those haters... those hater-aid drinkers... fuck em'. Excuse my french but, you're better than them. Try not to let their negativity affect you. This is your blog which you started to share your story about eating Vegan and gluten free and baking up all those awesome blondies!

Just know that for every hateful person, there are 50 people who really care about you.

Love always,
Sarah; Friday, May 01, 2009
ttfn300 said...: oh my gosh, do i understand getting overwhelmed reading and feeling like you have to comment... i feel bad when i have a crazy day at work and don't have time to read... like i need to catch up. i want people to know that i'm reading, but it does take extra time to go and comment on everything i read.

do what YOU want with your blog, vg, it shouldn't be an added stress!! life is crazy enough as it is, and i'm going to take some of these suggestions myself. Love ya!!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Anonymous said...: VeggieGirl,

Every Friday Night, I faithfully come to your blog for my weekly dose of Veggie Girl TV. I love to see your baked goodies, hear about your diet and exercise challenges, view your product reviews, and other insights you have. I believe you are truly a health inspiration for young women. I have been introduced to many other blogs from your page as well.

It is deplorable that anyone would leave such negative comments and threats. And I certainly understand why you need a break. Your post this week was direct, but as always you handled yourself with grace!

I hope this is not the end of VeggieGirl TV and your blog. I would miss you! (every Friday my husband says "oh you're watching Veggie Girl!")and I'm still holding out to see VeggieDad :)

Enjoy your week. Good luck with finals. Hope to see you back next Friday night!

A faithful reader,
Jo; Friday, May 01, 2009
Anonymous said...: veggie girl you rock sister! I have been reading since you started and I made a blog, because you inspired me so much, please don't leave blogging your to much of a good thing to do so. earthybrit.wordpress.com; Friday, May 01, 2009
Jaime said...: i am sorry you have had to experience such drama and negativity recently - i was not aware of it. some people are so mean/cruel and have nothing better to do.

i am glad that you took a break for yourself. i think you should continue to do so for as long as you need. i appreciate you continuing to read our blogs too. i completely understand what you mean about the desire to comment on others' blogs almost taking over you. like i emailed you, once i let go of that desire (and guilt) i was able to enjoy blogging more. i still try to comment on blogs when i have time, but there are some weeks where i do not comment on ANY blogs! and i am now ok with that. i think people understand that life gets busy. esp when you follow so many blogs, it gets hard. it would be one thing if you only followed 10. but when you follow hundreds, where does the time come from? please do continue to take time for yourself and for your family - they are so much more important!

i do think you should continue to post blog posts, though. i enjoy reading your posts and seeing your creations. i know so many people who are allergic to gluten who struggle to find good things to eat. i think you're providing a great service/resource for those people. sure there are books and recipes online but i never trust a recipe until i know it's been tried by someone else and your blog provides that for people - they know if they make a recipe on your blog that it is "Tried and True"

so, take the break that you need, but i do hope that you will continue blogging!; Friday, May 01, 2009
amy. said...: YOU go girl~ do what you gotta do, live it up, for real! Good luck on finals :D; Friday, May 01, 2009
Emily said...: Hi Liz,

I had no idea you received such comments. What losers!

PLEASE take a break and enjoy life! Concentrate on baking and blogging.. don't worry about commenting. Seriously. People will continue to visit and read.; Friday, May 01, 2009
River said...: I had to come out of "blog hibernation" to make a public display of support. Taking care of yourself comes first, if that means no blog commenting - so be it.

The idiots with the negative posts are so pathetic. They must live very sad little lives.

You rock! We always want to see you come back - as long as you feel like it. And you are beautiful - love the necklace! Love you! :-); Friday, May 01, 2009
Erin of Care to Eat said...: Oh wow. I can't believe how negative people have been. It's really shocking and I had no idea there was all this crazy drama in the blog world.
I'm SO glad you've taken this step. SELF-CARE. I'm glad you're NOT forcing yourself to comment. Free time can be spend in much better ways, right?
You have nothing to feel bad about! It's unrealistic to be that perfectionistic and I'm so glad you see that. I hope you know me saying this comes from a place of LOVE.; Friday, May 01, 2009
Erin of Care to Eat said...: P.S. Of course you're not being a bitch. You're being normal, healthy, and responsible. And...I LOVE YOU! I love seeing you grow.; Friday, May 01, 2009
Kiersten said...: Good for you VeggieGirl. Do whatever makes YOU happy. Screw all the haters and anyone who has anything negative to say. It's your life and your blog, and if someone doesn't like it then they have no business posting about you. I am sorry you've gotten so many negative comments from people :( You are a great person, don't let any of them get to you! Whether or not you leave comments, you know there are still lots of us who support you and your blog.; Friday, May 01, 2009
melissa said...: I am pretty horrified that people would be so negative. I hope you enjoy your hiatus. Ihave often mentioned to bloggers i know that sometimes I worry about spending so much time with virtual people at the expense of my "real life" friends. it's a hard balance. and I must be honest and say, I really don't care that much what people eat, but i read because I love you hear your stories, about your lives and because I feel like I know many of you!

VG you are the best, and honestly I don't think one other person on the planet could have kept up with commenting as long and as thoroughly as you did. xoxoxo; Friday, May 01, 2009
Krista said...: I'm glad to hear that you've been able to do what YOU wanted to do this past week! I can't imagine having the time to read as many blogs as you, never mind comment on them all. No wonder you got overwhelmed. There are blogs that I read every single day, but I don't always comment on them and I'm sure the same thing happens on my blog. That's OK. Like you said, blogging is suppose to be a pleasurable hobby, not a job we hate. Enjoy your hiatus, Liz! You know where to find me and I certainly would like you to continue Veggie Girl TV!; Friday, May 01, 2009
KB said...: You go girl! It's perfectly okay for you to cut back on commenting! But please, DO keep up your blog! It's one of the first that I ever began reading, and I love...and VeggieGirl t.v. is a great plus these days!
I know it's hard, but just forget the negativity-you're too good of a person and have too many supporters to let people like that get you down! Have a wonderful weekend and I hope you can continue being stress-free :); Friday, May 01, 2009
hopeinpeanutbutterandoats said...: ok i have many points to make right now

1.) i am proud of you for coming over to the dark side and watching twilight and obsessing over Edward, he is super delish.
2.) i started a slow clap for you at the end of your vid...by myself..in my room. ha
3.) ohhh VeggieDad, come out and plaaaaay!!! :) i hope to see him soon!
4.) you are a strong, and amazing individual for standing up for yourself, no one deserves to be hated on, unless they do somethign totally bitch like light a bag of poop on your doorstep, or steal your man or something, BUT you didn't do ANY of that so you're in the clear :) at least in my book!

i love you and respect you and your decisions and hope you enjoy your weekend to the max!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Maria said...: I'm a lurker, and have been watching every episode of VeggieGirl tv, and love it! I'm so sorry that you have to struggle with all this :(. I can hear your frustration and totally understand. I think you should take time off for yourself, and simply live life the way you want to. It is your life after all! Don't feel forced to do something you don't want to do! Still loving VeggieDad by the way ;). So awesome of him to be so supportive!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Kara said...: I think you really are too nice. Whenever I start to feel really judgmental (especially as a vegetarian), I just think, "What would Veggiegirl say?" and I remember how crappy it feels when people are critical of what I eat. It's true! So you really are an inspiration.; Friday, May 01, 2009
jessy said...: i couldn't agree with you more, VeggieGirl! blogging should be fun, relaxing, & enjoyable - not stressful, crazy, and overwhelming! i'm so happy that you're feeling awesome and that you have time for YOU! :) i appreciate your honesty and i think you're do'n what's best for you and that's super stellar! i wholeheartedly support you - ROCK ON, VeggieGirl!

*and you better believe i want to see more of your episodes - just take your time and blog when it's best for you! :); Friday, May 01, 2009
Sarah (lovINmytummy) said...: I'm renaming you "Veggie LOVE" because I LOVED this post.

You and your dad have your comedic timing down perfectly...loved it!

You know that I support you 100% with your hiatus and want you to come back refreshed and in a good place mentally. I also hope to see you blogging as always.

Thank you again for your sweet gift my friend, we were in the cookies after dinner tonight. Yum! Let's talk when we both have a sec.

Love, Sarah; Friday, May 01, 2009
Nutritious is Delicious said...: I am sorry people are making you feel bad for not commenting on their blog. I am also tired of negative people! What happened to the good ole' "If you can't say anything, don't say anything at all". I enjoy your blog though, but I am glad you are doing what is right for you.; Friday, May 01, 2009
Gena said...: Hey girl,

So thrilled with this post. You know that I applaud both your efforts to be healthy in terms of how you balance your blog time, and in terms of your confidence and courage in calling out negativity and cruelty. You are truly the best: I admire and adore you, in and out of the blogosphere!

xoxo; Friday, May 01, 2009
Anonymous said...: Good for you! I really enjoyed the genuineness that shined through in this post. Your exasperation (though unfortunate) was so authentic and feelings so down-to-earth that I hope it will make people realize they shouldn't take you for granted. Feel free to live your life! I always was amazed at your comment-postage abilities, haha. I'm a regular reader and I've seldom seen any negative comments here -- ignore them. From what I've seen you do for other bloggers (*cough* baked goods *cough*), I know you're a beautiful person.; Friday, May 01, 2009
Kerry said...: Delurking to let you know that I enjoy your blog, especially because it exposes me to new foods and ingredients. Best of luck finding the right balance in your life.; Friday, May 01, 2009
Anonymous said...: Hey Veggiegirl!! I'm glad you were able to get that off your chest. I know how it feels when something that you previously really enjoyed becomes a chore.. It sucks big time. I know that the negativity sparked your comment hiatus, but after watching your video, it definitely sounds and looks like you started feeling crunched long before this week or the sudden spike in negativity. I think thats a really good observation on your part. I definitely love seeing your insight EVERYWHERE, but I think taking a break or cutting down may be best.

Also, I have learned to look forward to your posts on Friday nights after all is said and done for the week. I enjoy more frequent posters too, but I just wanted to let you know that it has become a Friday ritual for me and that I really enjoy it!! Thanks for the honesty-- YOU ROCK!

--Manda; Friday, May 01, 2009
selina said...: i am always amazed that you would be the 1st commenter on all the posts i would read.

good for you for taking the hiatus & getting to do some things. life is too short to not enjoy yourself.

i love veggie girl TV btw!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Sandy said...: I'm sorry that you've been stressed, and some people have left hurtful comment's..there's alway's a few bad apple's in the bunch:(
I'm glad you're taking time for yourself..and hope you'll continue your Blog..I look forward to your post's..I alway's enjoy them !!

Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us..and I'M still hoping to see Veggie Dad on video one day :)

Take care..Enjoy yourself!!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Rose said...: I agree with so much of what you said here. I have been adopting similar practices with commenting. With more than 100 blogs on my reader, it became daunting to read and comment on every single post.

I must admit - I did not see the negativity in blog land recently, and I'm saddened to hear of it now. I don't always get time to read all the comments, so I must have missed it. Either way, I'm so sorry your feelings were hurt this past week.

You know how I roll -life always comes first! I am so happy that you've had time to destress, read some books, practice more yoga - that's wonderful!

You must life your life for YOU and YOU only! I have appreciated all your comments on my blog, and it's nice to know you're still reading. But if you don't have time to read my blog - no worries. We will catch up sooner or later, and thats all that matters, girl!

Love ya! Hope you have great weekend.; Friday, May 01, 2009
babycakes said...: Liz, I am SO happy that you are finally allowing yourself to take a break. I just wanted to say that I support you 100% and admire your strength and honesty. I will remain a dedicated reader regardless of how you chose to proceed with blogging.
Have a fun and relaxing weekend!!! :)
Sincerely,
Jaime; Friday, May 01, 2009
vegannurse said...: VeggieGirl,

I fully support your decision 100%. Do whatever makes you feel good and please never view blogging/commenting as a chore. It is something to do when one feels like it and has time. It should be joyful and I applaud you for making this decision.

Do whatever you think is best for you! You're the best and certainly deserve to have a life outside the blogosphere. :-); Friday, May 01, 2009
Kathleen said...: I'm sort of delurking to comment. I love your blog. I have read it faithfully since I discovered it in February. I was so excited that I read the back posts to see all your yummy recipes. I'm sorry that people were posting negative things. That's not cool...
I look forward to more of your fun posts in the future, however you decide to change them.; Friday, May 01, 2009
fitforfree said...: You should never have to apologize for being honest!! If a hiatus is what you need to live a full life, then by all means, take it, and don't feel any pressure to come back and comment on everything if it's what's best for you. I'll still read yer blog :-); Friday, May 01, 2009
thresholdofgreatness said...: Do your thing VeggieGirl! I'm so glad to hear you've had a stress free week. I believe that most stress is completely unnecessary, and I'm glad you've found a way to reduce it in your life! Even though, I must say, I've missed seeing you around. :-) It really bothers me to hear people are being so mean and negative.

Do what makes YOU happy!; Friday, May 01, 2009
talesofexpansion said...: vg/liz, the second you appeared on camera in this post, i thought, "wow, this hiatus has done her good!" you look so much lighter, more relaxed, and happier in general. you're wearing white, and i love it! i'm so glad you're putting yourself first. it's not selfish at all! PLEASE keep doing what you need to do, and rest assured that we'll all support you no matter what :-)

and btw, you and veggiedad have the exact same intonation/style of speaking!! so cute. keep working on him to make a cameo!; Friday, May 01, 2009
Heather McD (Heather Eats Almond Butter) said...: VeggieGirl,
I say stick with your hiatus. Sounds like you're enjoying life so much more...glad you got to spend some time with Edward (oh my gosh...that scene where he drives Bella to school for the first time - I watched it over and over on YouTube) AND Mr. Churchill (Love Winston! My degree is in history with a concentration in British studies...now I do massage therapy and write about oat bran). Hehe.

Anyway, you know how I feel about your anonymous commenters, and so we'll just leave it at that. Focus on the majority of the blog world that truly loves you...like me. :)

Good for you for being honest. You take care of you, but please don't ever stop making VeggieGirl TV. I need my weekly fix!

Love you my friend...AND your necklace. You're too cute.; Friday, May 01, 2009
Theresa said...: Woah, people seriously leave negative comments to you and about you? I find that ridiculous, for a few reasons. One is that you are such a likeable blogger! What bad things could someone possibly say about you!? The other is that I can't believe people take the energy to be negative about people in cyber space.

As much as I loved your very quick comments on posts, and I love reading your posts to see your delicious baked goodies, I completely understand your need to take a break. Your life is YOURS and you need to enjoy it!

Also, Veggie Dad = totally super cute.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
peanutbutterandjuli said...: SPEAK IT SISTER!

I am proud of you for stepping back and taking care of yourself. I hope you keep it up and, please, no guilt. YOU need to take care of YOU and all of us who love our Veggie Girl understand and appreciate you, not for your comments, but for who you are. You are not a bitch, you are honest, and deeply caring for others. The most important thing to do (this was a hard lesson for me to learn) is to take care of yourself. Congrats on taking some awesome steps.

Good luck on exams! And I am just sickened that people say such horrible, cruel, narrow-minded things.

But to end on a happy note- love you VeggieBest!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
lilveggiepatch said...: Twilight!!!

I love your comments, but please don't let yourself get stressed about blogging. As you said, blogging was started out of passion (presumably), and I'm also guilty of blogging when I don't want to, which is stupid. So, just know that I (and we!) care more about your well-being than you feeling pressured to comment on every single post.

This is so incoherent but I hope you know what I mean...

Love,
Katie; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Katrina said...: That's right! You go and take control of your life and your blog! You are an inspiration to so many people, VeggieGirl. Don't let a few sour people throw a cloud over your sunshine. You are A-MAZING, talented, caring, and a great writer and blogger. I would personally like to thank you for the positive influence you have been in my life. Keep doing what makes you happy and feeds your soul.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Olga said...: Liz,

You were one of the first people to consistently comment on my blog when I started it and it was partially you who kept me going. I really appreciate your dedication, but like you said, the blogging community should be a supportive and fun aspect of your life, it shouldn't REPLACE your life. You should watch movies without feeling guilty about commenting!

I agree with others when I say that the blogging community would not be the same without you and I will say it again when I meet you in person this summer =) But DO take as long of a break as you need to and reduce that stress level! I can't believe people are being such assholes. Do they not realize how incredible of a job you're doing? I hope you're enjoying your hiatus and getting the rest you need. We'll still be here when you're back =) And I don't need comments on every post to know you read! I just want you to be happy!

Thank you for everything and please continue with VeggieGirl TV...I mean, we're so much closer to seeing VeggieDad, I can FEEL IT!

=); Saturday, May 02, 2009
eatingbender said...: You are such a breath of fresh air in the blogging world, VeggieGirl. Don't you ever dare think otherwise! You should never have to apologize for needing to take some time for yourself. I know we've talked about this at great length, but I am so happy that you have been enjoying yourself this week and honestly, I still feel your presence even without the comments. Because as you said, I KNOW you care. And that is seriously all that matters.

I love your relationship with VeggieDad. It reminds me so much of my own - I can imagine that if he was the man behind the camera in my videos, we'd have a similar dynamic. I can't wait for the day he reveals himself!

Oh, and have to throw in that Robert Pattinson is HOT! You know it, lady ;o)

I <3 you and am so lucky to know you. I can't wait for your next post. You are da bomb diggity!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Alisa - Frugal Foodie said...: I had no idea you were getting negative comments like that, horrible! Enjoy your break and don't worry about commenting; just knowing our out there is good enough for me :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
ellykay said...: hi veggiegirl,
i've posted a couple comments before but consider this my official "delurking" comment. I really do enjoy watching your videos each week. I am also a vegan college girl (not quite 21 yet) but I feel like we have a connection just because we have so much in common. Anyway, i'm sorry people give you such negative comments. I've had weight issues before and the comments everyone make really really do not help, so I feel your pain. they make for incredibly awkward situations and even worse feelings. i just want to say thank you for being so strong and sticking up for yourself. keep posting! i always look forward to it on friday nights (or saturday mornings if i'm not completely coherent friday night). peace!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Gone Vegan said...: I honestly don't know how you fit everything into your week, and you definitely deserve a break and less stress! Blogging should be a fun outlet, not stressful. I hope you continue to post on your blog, but if you never comment on mine again, I will completely understand. I'm not much of a commenter for the same reasons. By the way, you are a beautiful person inside and out, and you look amazing and healthy. The negative commenters must just be jealous. Have a great week off and good luck on your finals!

Sue; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Saima said...: Hey VG--first time commenting on ur blog!! WOWWW!! ppl are soo mean!!gahhhh!! u shud deffo take this break to just enjoy and as you said not consider blogging a chore! Good luck for your finals! :D; Saturday, May 02, 2009
rawr. said...: hey lady~
ive been lurking in the majical land of blogging (it really is not a world) for quite sometime and i honestly haven't been able to track it's growth. it's insane how popular it's gotten, same with you. you are so utterly classic, of course you're going to be famous. you're well on your way. i think you're awesome, i was hoenstly amazed to see your comments on every blog i read. i think you're rad and that it's ironic that something that began as something you enjoy soon grew so stressful. life evolves in weird ways. i'd like to see your blogs, i honestly love reading them. but if it's too stressful and sucking away your time from other things you love, you should honestly evaluate continuing
if its just all the negativaty that is discouraging you...please...try not to let the whorebags take you down. everyone else adores you...; Saturday, May 02, 2009
sweetandfit said...: I am SOOO proud of you!

you kicked butt in that video post!

I hope you continue blogging, I love reading your blog - you are such a sweet person, dont let anyone get you down hun!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Mimi said...: VeggieGirl, you rock!

I am SO sorry you've had to endure all this negativity.

I don't pretend to be an active part of the blog world, but I completely agree with what you say. The blogworld can be an exciting place...but the outside world can be pretty snazzy too.

I tune in to VeggieGirl TV because you always have interesting stuff to say. And you have kickass recipes!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
ChickPea said...: Liz, you've hit on a topic that I think is really pertinent in the blogging world right now. I think a lot of bloggers are realizing that posting can take up far too much of their daily lives; it's all too easy to become immersed in the blogsophere and disrupt the balance between blogging as a hobby and blogging as a chore. There is a lot of truth in what you say, and I will certainly take it to heart. As a person who thrives on structure, I often forget that blogging is not something to be checked off a list; it should be something fun and inspirational to read. Thanks for the wake-up call.
Have a fabulous, restful weekend.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Katie said...: VG! I have been reading for a few months now but first time to comment. You are too stinkin cute; I look forward to your videos each week and love looking through your recipes and ideas. I am so sorry you have had to deal w/ so many negative commentors. That is seriously ridiculous, childish, etc... Yey for you speaking out and standing up for yourself! You have to know by now that 99.9% of the blogging world is in LOVE with you and your blog; you are such an amazing person. I have seen your comments on others and you are always so positive and supportive! Anyway, I just wanted to share that I enjoy your blog and hope you do continue but I totally understand the need for a break at times. THis is suppose to be fun not a drag or stress you out. Have a great weekend and good luck with finals :)

Always,
Katie; Saturday, May 02, 2009
jaimegirl said...: VG-
ok, so you want honesty from us. here we go........i can't say that i think getting a ton of negative posts is surprising----only because you are a very popular blogger and with popularity comes something of a "celebrity effect" where people will basically come out and say whatever is on their minds because the connection to you readers is no longer so intimate. also, and this is just the way i see things, if i were you i would always expect to get negative feedback for myslef. when you put yourself out there, you have to accept that(negativity/vitriol) as a possible(and probable) side effect; some people will not like you and will do/say crappy things. it's just life, the clashing of personalities, girls being "mean girls", etc.
i will say that the first time i saw your blog i was kind of taken aback that you were putting yourself out there as an advocate for heatlh, after i saw your pictures. i thought; "people already think vegans are unhealthy; when they look at this very skinny/wan/thin haired girl, they will think that they are justified in thier beliefs."
then i read when you posted about the real reason for all of that, your Crohns disease. i think if you mentioned this more it may help people understand why you don't look so healthy.
my next bit of honesty; i am SO GLAD you took a hiatus from commenting on blogs. it was very clear recently that whenever you left a comment on any blog i would read it was completely done in haste and was very impersonal("HOORAY for sweet potatoes!!!!"etc.,) and really was only posted because you felt obligated. never DO that! only post or comment when you have something important to say.
i hope you don't mind my saying all this, but you did ask for honest feedback. and there's mine.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Skinnymum said...: I am so sorry to hear about this. Can't people that there are such horrible people out there.
Even though I don't comment often, I read each and every one of your posts. You have inspired to start eating proper meals, and kick-start my journey in vegan cooking and baking. I will always be grateful to you!
Even though I don't know you personally I felt your care and concern for me. Your support during my laxative and self-imposed non-eating days, will never be forgotten. I always hope that we would get to meet-up one day, either when I visit the States or when you come to Malaysia.
Frankly, I hope that you will continue to blog, but more importantly I want you to be happy. Do whatever that makes you happy.............

Take Care!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Vegetation said...: Elizabeth, you totally just said what had been going on in my head the past month when I was thinking of giving up blogging (about the commenting and stress because of not being able to etc) and I agree. Blogging should be fun for those blogging and for those reading, not an added stress in our lives! Funny though that if I don't blog for a week I hop on my blog and apologize, but it doesn't bother me one bit if a blog I subscribe to doesn't update for a month! I'm still there reading!

Sorry you're being picked on by others in the blogosphere. That makes me sad because it's completely unnecessary, unfair and worst of all untrue. You are a beautiful young lady and don't ever let anyone tell you that you aren't!

As for your blog, you already know I love it and I'll continue to love it if it stays the same or if it changes.

Enjoy your commenting hiatus and good luck with those mid term exams!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Pearl said...: Liz! I'm sorry to hear that people have been spreading negativity around to your blog and to others. I think that this commenting hiatus is good for you, as it allows you to focus on other things that make you happy and whole, too :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
wholefoodswholeme said...: oh sweet VG! i am so sorry to hear that people have been so heartless :( it makes me so sad, that people take the time to make such comments and deliberately try to be nasty. it is so unnecessary. i am really very glad that you decided to take a hiatus - of course i've always wondered how on earth you find the time to comment on so many blogs all the time, and i suspected that a lot of stress built up from it... and i was right! you need a break and you have every right to take one. i will always enjoy anything you put into this blog :D by the way, love your gorgeous necklace!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Romina said...: Liz, this is such a fabulous post, and you are so right. You have your own life, and lots of people can't appreciate your effort and time and just stomped all over you. I'm glad that you can take some time for yourself. :) You rock! Seriously. This was such a powerful post, and you said what you had been needing to say for a while. If people don't understand that, that is THEIR fault, and THEIR loss. I hope you have a beautiful and fantastic, relaxing weekend. And watch movies!! I've been watching so many movies lately. I've seen at least 35 this year so far. Get on it! You are a beautiful human being, and don't let morons ruin you with their anonymity. They are only throwing at you THEIR OWN insecurities of themselves because they hate themselves so much.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
rediscoveringlauren said...: hi hun
i think you hit the nail on the head in regards to people feeling guilty for not blogging and it becoming more of a chore at times. blogging is something that should be enjoyable but shouldnt take over peoples lives, blogging should be something enjoyable we do in our spare time, not the only thing we do.
i will always read your blog for as long as you want to keep posting, i cant belive some people are being so negative on here, i mean whats the point in making other feel bad, its awful. you are such a sweet person adn you dont deserve any of the negativity youve been getting.
take all the time you need for a break, all of your loyal readers will be here when you choose to blog again :)
take care hun
xxxx; Saturday, May 02, 2009
completelydelicious said...: This must have been scary to do! I know I get worried when I post these kinds of things. Well done for taking some time to think about what the negative comments meant to you and how you wanted to handle their effect. I don't think you needed to be so defensive in your video - but then again, i guess I didn't read the comments you got, so i understand you felt that way. You don't need to defend your choices - as I can tell from the comments you've gotten, no one is attacking you for not commenting or whatever. I guess people do get used to receiving your wonderful comments, so when you go on a hiatus people will ask you what's up.

I'm just saying - don't let things get so pent up in the future. Be honest more often. hey, maybe you could even incorporate a "get real" moment in the videos you do, just to keep you on your toes. But then don't let it force you to do something you don't want to ;-); Saturday, May 02, 2009
Jenny said...: Dear Veggiegirl,
I am a lurker (never commented before) but I just wanted to say I hope you keep the blog going in whatever way/ shape/ form you want to... and everyone will love it no matter what! I also think it's terrible commenting got so stressful for you and am glad you're pulling back... I think if you only commented on one blog per week everyone would think just the same of you and be appreciative of whatever you can give. "Virtual life" should never overshadow real life for any of us. Thanks for all you do! Now, back to lurking for me, haha :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
Erica said...: SO with ya. This is why I'm only posting 1 or 2 x per week. I just was getting so wrapped up in posting and commenting that it was taking up like 4 hours of my day! So I removed some of the blogs from my google reader that I was forcing myself to read and comment on and only kept the blogs I really love. Do whatever you need. I fully support you!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Shannon (The Daily Balance) said...: Great post and you know I totally agree with everything you are saying... So often people feel pressured and stressed when blogging is supposed to do the OPPOSITE! I'm so happy to hear that you've enjoyed your break this week from commenting -- everyone knows how much you care about blogging -- you need to focus on YOU, not on everyone else -- after all, that's how you can continue doing what you do best.

I personally try and limit myself from a lot of the pressure to comment by trying to set a cap on how many comments I post on a day. Like you, I read all posts, but only select a handful to comment on -- sometimes random, sometimes not. I'm here for you -- Hang in there ;)

Can't wait to see you this afternoon!!! <3
xo
shannon; Saturday, May 02, 2009
eatfabinnyc said...: I cannot believe that people are so incredibly cruel, disgusting and immature. I had no idea that was happening...and I hate to see you upset about it (and rightfully so, unfortunately). I agree with you, the negativity has to end. Blogging about healthy lifestyles should have nothing to do with people's unfounded anger and cruelty. You should do whatever works for you. Everyone knows that you are a wonderful commenter, poster and person (well everyone who is intelligent and 'normal'...)and we will all stand behind you as you enjoy your life, yoga, edward cullen and everything else. NO STRESS = AMAZING. Send the haters my way...I have a nasty NY attitude to boot ;)
xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoox
sara
http://eatfabinyc.wordpress.com; Saturday, May 02, 2009
The Token Fat Girl said...: hey veggie girl! I'm de-lurking to comment as someone who has a blog and doesn't comment very often :)
I really understand where you are coming from, I've been blogging for the past two years and sometimes feel guilty for not blogging when I'm enjoying life.
Occasionally, I feel I should be sharing everything I do, but its just not possible for a balanced life. When I feel guilt or worry what readers will think I remind myself "why did I start this, and who did I start it for?" and then I realize I am one person who has a big life and blogging happens to be apart of what I do.
That said, I rarely comment and I make jokes about not commenting because I'm so bad about doing it.
I know that a lot of successful bloggers get successful by leaving comments, but I have to say that while I do leave comments I don't always. I do read though, and I get even more readers than I have in the past.
Sometimes I wish I was in the blogging community more, but right now to have a balanced life I can't leave so many comments.
Sometimes we have to let go of a few things in order to be happy, even if we feel like bad people for doing so.
Taking time for yourself doesn't make you a bad blogger. Living a life outside of your blog gives your more stuff to write about too.
Good luck! I always stop by and think about what you have to say even though I may not comment.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
K from ksgoodeats said...: Oh VG, how I love you!! You are one of the nicest people that I've met - take all the time you need. ENJOY LIFE!

The haters, that's just disgusting! Some people get off on those kind of things and it's sick.

Keep on keepin' on, VG! We will catch up once my cuh-razy life calms down. Stay stress free, love!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
glidingcalm said...: Amen! Loved this post and your honesty.... and that you blog when you have truly meaningful things to say. Thanks Veggie Girl! You know you have my support, and I'm so glad you are finding new hobbies and living less stressed.

I really can't believe the cruel comments you received though- That just makes me furious.

Gluck with finals love! (VEGAS IS SO SOON!); Saturday, May 02, 2009
lesley said...: Thanks for this very honest and true video! I went through a period of pressure, feeling like for some reason I had to comment on EVERY post and post EVERY day, etc but I agree, it's SO much easier to take the pressure off and just do what you want. I had to take time to realize why I was posting, too. I haven't been blogging nearly as long as you but I definitely noticed the drama pretty quickly (and I hate drama!)

Now I post when I feel like it and I don't comment on every blog because let's just face it I don't have time!! We all have real lives that needed lived, too and I'm very glad you got to read books, watch movies, etc on your time "off". Don't EVER feel obligated to comment on my blog, I can tell you care!! : )

Thanks for being a great person, Liz, and thanks for your honesty!! I think that's something we all need to remember!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Nicole (anotheronebitesthecrust.wordpress.com) said...: You go, girl! Take all the time you need and don't let those haters get you down! You're a beautiful and amazing blogger and I can't wait to see the changes coming up for you.

Good luck with finals!

<3; Saturday, May 02, 2009
sarah said...: I have so much to say!!!
1) YES of course I want VGTV to continue and the blog to go on--I love it (and you!)
2) I loved the beginning of this post, it was so cute
3) Your necklace is gorgeous
4) It made me sick hearing about all the negativity. I am so sorry that you have had to deal with it. While it is true that people can be cruel, there ARE good ones out there and you just have to have faith that there are more good than bad.
5) I can't tell you how proud I am that you took this blog hiatus because you obviously needed it. Maybe a certain card from a certain someone pushed you in that direction? hehe!
6) I think you said it perfectly yourself: people shouldn't feel guilty about how often they blog because it should be something ENJOYABLE for them. The same goes with you and your commenting--don't ever feel guilty for missing a day or for not commenting on every single person. Comment when something in the post really stands out for you and you have something to say, but don't feel the need to say something to everyone because then it just becomes a source of stress.
7) GOOD LUCK ON FINALS
8 (and finally) I'm so sorry that I haven't been around to chat this week--my life has been insane with the end of classes and finals and I've been way too stressed. My last final is on Weds. and I'll be extremely free after that so we can definitely catch up then!

Have a great weekend!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Laci said...: Hey Veggie girl!
* Love your new outfit! I noticed you wore black when you were trying to be non controversal and white when you're being honest- may I also acknowledge you look so healthy and fit in this video- and such clear skin! :-)
I'm so sorry if I've ever personally gave you a negative comment- and I am shocked to hear what you mentioned about anaymous comments- you go girl for telling them to just quit it! I totally know what you mean about the stress overload- and how bloggin is suppose to be a pleasure when it can be stressful to comment as well. Glad you enjoyed your week though- it's Ok if you want to take a break- no, it's GREAT- life is too short to waste free time feeling trapped or stressed! I will look forward to enjoying your blog as well as many others- hang in there!Good luck with the finals too! Enjoy your weekend, much love
xoxo
Laci; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Mara @ What's For Dinner? said...: Oh my dear VeggieGirl... I'm so incredibly sorry about all the negativity you've encountered. I'm grateful that I have you in my life (virtual as it may be for now) and love each and every one of your posts! I look forward to your posts, and have definitely missed your comments... but I know what you mean about the stress.
I've found that my comments have gotten less personal, and I don't like it.
I'm going to take your advice from Real World and stop being polite, and start getting real!
Love you!!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Tyler said...: Real life should definitely come before blogging! I'm so glad you have been feeling less stressed! I love reading your blog, and I will continue reading regardless of how many posts you feel like commenting on :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
Rachel H said...: I'm delurking to say that I love your blog and look forward to your posts every Friday. I'm shocked that your getting negative comments after all the kind things you've done for the blogging community. Your very inspiring and I hope you continue blogging.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
shelby said...: Liz-
I'm really proud of you for taking a stand and letting yourself be heard. I have been doing the same thing lately where I can't do my chores or whatever until I'm done reading blogs. I've always been afraid to miss posts and not comment because when people comment me, I don't want to be rude and not say anything back. I have been taking breaks from posting though as school is coming to an end and finals are coming up. It's definetly different than when I first started blogging too (and I think we started at around the same time haha)

You are such an amazing woman and I'm so glad to have you as a friend. I would love to see more posts from you but only when YOU feel like it. You bring so much light and happiness to the blogging world and have helped so many people, including me!

Love you girl!!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Anonymous said...: Well said, VeggieGirl. Life is too short to be stressed over blogging! Taking care of yourself and doing what makes you happy should be your number one priority. No one can disrespect that! Best of luck.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
nourishing mornings said...: hey love.
i am so sorry that you have been getting negative comments, those people are stupid! you are amazing, and dont listen to the netetive things, you are loved by so many on the blogs, and you are the best commenter! take the time you need to focus on yourself. :)

love you
eliza; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Lauren said...: I've never commented here before, but I just wanted to say how much I love you and your blog! You definitely need to take some time for yourself. Blogging is supposed to be a positive, inspirational experience and no one should have to deal with so many negative comments. Never stop being you, Veggie Girl! Stay strong, because there are so many people behind you! xo; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Marilyn said...: VG:
You are a terrific young woman, and I would attribute negative comments to 1) ignorance; 2) envy; 3) cruelty (which, unfortunately, is real in this world). Enjoy your break, and live your life as you wish! Honestly, I look forward to Fridays for many reasons, but VG TV is very near the top of the list.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Anonymous said...: Hey there-

I do not normally comment on blogs, but I felt compelled to on this one (and another one earlier this week). Anyway, I completely agree that it is beyond disgusting that you have been receiving death threats, etc. I do not think anyone would think that is okay, and I am sorry you have had to deal with that. On another note, and I think you may agree, I think that death threats, and intentionally rude comments are uncalled for. However, I do think that some bloggers have the inability to accept a mere difference in opinion, and then they, and sometimes their loyal readers jump all over the person who dared to say something "controversial." I commented on a story that one blogger told earlier this week, and I said that I disagreed with her reaction to something (I still feel this way and would say it to her face if I had the chance). I checked back later to see what others thought and all of a sudden I was the worst person on the planet. Everyone was saying how rude my comment was and how horrible a person I was! The blog writer even did a whole follow-up post on basically how much my comment sucked, which is fine if that is how she felt, but my comment was completely misconstrued. Anyway, blogs are public forums and people are going to have a difference in opinion and if it is expressed appropriately I think this should be accepted and even appreciated. This is not say that what was has been said to you is okay, it is not by any means. Anyway, that is my take. If you have a public blog allow people to say how they feel about what you say, even if they don't agree all of the time. Differences in opinion can sometimes lead to the best conversations.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Amanda @ Fake Ginger said...: Okay, first off you and your dad sound so much alike! He needs to show his face so we can see if ya'll look alike.

I think everyone needs a blogging break sometimes and I think that's always going to come with some guilt. I am pregnant and yet I still feel guilty that I only post twice a week. I should have no guilt at all about it since, as you mentioned, it's MY BLOG. I pay for it, I should do whatever I want.

Anyway, I think you should continue to enjoy your break. Watch more movies, read some more books, whatever you want.

That all being said, I've noticed on a lot of the blogs I read you are always the first to comment. I'm not saying this is fact, but I've seen certain blogger's reputation ruined by so much commenting. The blog owners see it as a way to drive traffic to the commenter's blog instead of a genuine comment. Like I said, I don't know if this is the case for you but I thought I'd through it out there because I hate to see a great blogger dealing with so much negativity.

Anyway, enjoy your break but I hope to see another video next Friday. I would also like to hear the review on the book.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
legallyvegan said...: You're definitely not Veggie Bitch, lol!

I had no idea you were still getting so many rude comments. Some people just choose to be rude and ignorant and that's not your fault.

I think it's great that you are taking more time for yourself. Commenting on blogs should definitely not be this huge cause of stress for you. Blogging is supposed to be fun, but I don't see how it can be when you're so worried about commenting. Anyone who gets mad at you for not commenting doesn't deserve to have you as a reader anyways. Just do what is best for you. Of course, I still want you to post, but not at your own expense. :)

Good luck with finals!!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
acookinthemaking said...: Liz, I have always loved reading your blog and your comments. In fact, the reason I started reading your blog was because I'd see your comments on the blogs of others, and they were always so encouraging and positive. I can't believe that you've had to deal with so much negativity. Honestly, one of the reasons I have stayed somewhat removed from the blogging world is because of hearing about stuff like that. No one deserves that, especially not someone who has never had anything but positivity to add to this community.
I will continue to read/watch your blog for as long as you continue to post, and I support you in your hiaitus for as long as you need it.
Enjoy! Best wishes :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
Tina O. said...: Wow, I really can't believe all the nastiness online. I (used to) read many blogs for fun, but I have mostly stopped reading the comments. People are just sick and cowardly hiding behind their computers. Death threats? Honestly, why? I have a few I still read just about daily, but I also realized it was a huge time suck. And if I have learned anything this week especially, it is that life is short and I should really be out doing something productive and fun! That being said, I really do enjoy your blog and I look forward to the videos every Friday! I think you are a help to many people even if you don't realize it. And personally, if it weren't for you, I wouldn't have gone to Vegiterranean for my b-day! I wish you well with whatever you do! And I hope you keep up the videos.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Matt said...: Go VeggieGirl! You need to do what you need to do! I had no idea that there was that much negativity out there. I guess my blog is small enough to go unnoticed and just have a few readers who can relate to running. Screw all those people!

How was Twilight by the way? I kinda want to see it :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
lizzy said...: :( i *miss you! i love your honesty in this video...i can't believe that anyone would ever write negative comments to you, im so sorry. I hope you have had a great week, take as much time away as you need you deserve it. you are a beautiful writer and super yummy baker so you are for sure missed! and when you return I would love to *talk to you about living Gluten free...i'm really struggling with it and in need of tips! miss you! xoxo; Saturday, May 02, 2009
megan said...: Hello my love! Yes, definitely take a break. I highly recommend it. You are such a wonderful person and writer and you do not deserve those mean comments...ever. I will definitely miss your recipes though- I need to make some of your blondies, asap :)I hope you have a beautiful weekend...ENJOY it fully, please!!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Coco.nut Your Average Girl said...: Oh VeggieGirl!!
Everyone has already put it so nicely. And you already know how I feel about the negative remarks. I am glad you spoke on this topic as I think blogging can be a huge time suck and it should be something we are enjoying, but not the ONLY thing we do/enjoy. I am so glad you found rest and no stress this week, THAT is what life should be like. I support whatever changes you need to make to feel good about blogging. I am grateful for our friendship and think you are such a smart & inspirational individual. Keep it up girlie!
Love ya VeggieBeautiful!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Christine Byrne said...: Edward Cullen and Winston Churchill!? Sounds like a GREAT week to me. I admit I'm usually just a lurker, but I thought it was high time I left a comment. I think your blog is great, and that your baked goods all look DELICIOUS! I was wondering if you ever bake with almond butter? I tried it recently as a substitute for peanut butter, and my cookies turned out really weird... Any suggestions on what's good with almond butter baked in?; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Koko said...: VeggieGirl I love your blog and your videos! I really respect your desire to take a step back and relax and enjoy life (on that note, congrats on finishing this year of school!). I'll miss your comments, but I'll still keep actively watching your blog!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Lauren said...: i'm so sorry that people have been so negative. you don't deserve it whatsoever, and you deserve to take a nice hiatus!! hope you have a fabulous weekend, love! <3; Saturday, May 02, 2009
emmyster said...: Veggiebitch? NOFREAKINGWAY.

You have every right (and I commend you) for saying and doing what you are right now.

There are some not so nice people out there, but you are handling it the right way.

And you have so many more readers that love you than those that are trying to put you down.

I really wish the blogging world was still a more positive place.

Thanks for giving us the low down.

Loveyababe.

-E; Saturday, May 02, 2009
balanceisbest said...: I"m so proud of you! You're obviously very passionate about the blog world, but I'm glad that you're putting yourself #1 in again. Take care, sweet veggiegirl! :)

Kaneil, balanceisbest; Saturday, May 02, 2009
cinnamonapple said...: Hey girl...don't feel bad AT ALL for taking a break/hiatus/whatever you need to do! You rock, and we'll always look forward to reading/watching whatever you happen to post in the blogging world. There will always be negative people who feel the need to bring others down to feel better, but I hope you won't let them affect you too much. They don't matter! YOU matter, and so do positive people. :) Keep taking care of yourself, that's so important and I'm glad you're taking the time to do so.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
polly said...: Polly loves Veggie Girl. :)

You are brave and beautiful and strong.
I've had to pick a handful of blogs to read as it surely can become overwhelming! I still struggle with feeling guilty if I don't comment or read everybodys... but shoot! I say we write from our heart, read what we can, and love life.

You are a dear soul, Liz. I am so glad we met and our friendship is a sweet blessing. XOXO; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Ruby Red Vegan said...: Girl, you so do not deserve negativity! I am deeply sorry that anyone would say such mean, hateful things to you or about you. Please just enjoy living your life, too, and don't worry about missing posts! We can't be read every single blog on the internet, and no rational person would expect you to comment on every post, all the time! I do enjoy your posts, videos, and recipes, and will appreciate them whenever you have time for them.

Have a wonderful, wonderful week, and don't focus on the horribleness that has been going on! Anyone who takes the time to write you an unnecessarily hateful comment is just LAME and PATHETIC. So I'm sending lotsa love your way <3 :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
Leah @ Simply Fabulous said...: It can be so hard to get to everyone's blog all the time. I am so glad that you are taking time for YOU because that is what matters most. As I said in my email to you, try to remember why you started blogging in the first place.. and stick with that.

Take care xo; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Fitnessista said...: a-freaking-men my dear VG.
i'm so glad you got to take some time off this week for you and to be able to enjoy your veggielife :D
i am SOOOOOO sick of the negativity in blogland (as you know because we vent to eachother all the time)!!! bahhhh.
thank you for all of the sweet comments you've left on my posts -you were one of the main reasons i kept blogging in the beginning- but i'd much rather know you're doing something fun than worrying about commenting. i like your texts anyway :D
have a great day! <3; Saturday, May 02, 2009
miss v said...: i must have missed all the drama, but i'm sorry you had to get mixed up in all the negativity. that sucks.

no one should be forced to post or comment... i definitely feel that blogging should be at one's will...

stay positive and keep enjoying movies, books, and stress-free blogging! ;); Saturday, May 02, 2009
loveofoats.com said...: i can't tell you how much this post hit home with me 100%!!!!!!! seriously, i totally commend you for putting this out there because I feel the same way... blogging should be fun and enjoyable but not stressful and yeah, life IS short and the more i think about it, i think sometimes i get sucked into the computer and don't really get to enjoy my time away from the blog as much because it's in the back of my head... i stopped commenting on blogs and now am able to just read them when i can... i'm still struggling to find the balance but your video really inspired me and helped me to realize that life is more important to be worried about silly things like that... and as for the negativity, i think it's flat out disgusting... i know who you are talking about and gave them a piece of my mind simply because i think they are ignorant and hurtful and just because they have shortcomings doesn't mean they need to take it out on you... you are one of the sweetest people i have met via blogland and i really really hope you know that you have inspired (and entertained) so many people with your wonderful recipes and awesome veggiegirl tv episodes...

ok i'll stop yakking but i love the beginning of this video with veggiedad... that was too cute! it is clear you have an amazing family relationship!!!!!!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Lauryn said...: hey girl --

thanks for this post, it was so honest and refreshing. i really appreciate how REAL you are, and i commend you for pushing on with veggiegirlTV even though there are some crazy crazy people out there! honestly, people are AWFUL and will always talk no matter what, and i don't blame you for one bit for getting upset -- you are only human after all! i say just ignore them to the best of your ability and listen to the other hundreds of people (literally!) who have your back -- myself included!

as far as taking less time to comment on every single post, DO IT. seriously. i think you're amazing for trying to keep up with everyone, and so many times i think to myself "whoa how does she do it?!" but i think you need to have your own life and your own time -- blogging should never ever interfere with that!

hope you have a fantastic weekend, and that this could help even a little bit! xoxo; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Marianne said...: Girl, you should never feel like you HAVE TO comment when you read a post - just comment when something moves you and you feel the need to. That's how I approach my blog reading/commenting. I read alot, and comment when I have something I need to say. Some blogs I comment alot, some blogs rarely, but just find the balance that works for you.

And as for the wanky people who write stupid things about you - unfortunately, when you put yourself out on the internet, they are people who just troll around and say things to hurt people, because they think it's funny. I don't understand it, but unfortunately it happens (just like spam). I would love for them to go away, so that no one has to read their crap and get hurt by it, but I don't know that it will happen any time soon. As hard as I'm sure it is sometimes, you have to just brush it off, and think about the people who do really care for you and focus on that.

Hope your exams go well next week, and hopefully we'll see a little commenting when YOU fee like it around soon :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
Mariposa said...: what the heck is wrong with people??? i cant believe people have so much free time on their hands they need to take someone else down with them!

take as much time as you need and dont worry about commenting and stuff!

you should be able to live your life and not have to spend your free time posting comments ; ) you're not a superwoman- even though you are SUPER! just do what YOU need to do!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
aTxVegn said...: I'm just shocked that this has been happening to you. I guess I'm naive, but I thought our little circle of blogger friends were compassionate and like-minded. I don't blame you at all for wanting to take a break. And please don't feel obligated to comment on every single post of all the blogs you track. It's just not practical. You are one of the busiest people I know and you must take care of you, physically and emotionally.
xoxo
Diann; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Jaime said...: hey girl!!!

omg i am SO sorry about all of this negativity-- i think that is seriously just so wrong and it really saddens my heart that you have to go through this.
im so glad you took a break-- i think you really needed it. i love your blog so much and i love how real you are in this episode.
so glad you had more YOU time-- movies, yoga-- sounds PERFECT and just what you need.
i think you should definitely continue the hiatus-- for as long as YOU need! you need to do wahts best for you and i will ALWAYS support you with that.

love you lots girl! xoxoxoxoxox; Saturday, May 02, 2009
*One Step at a Time* said...: Oh Veggiegirl. It really makes me sad that you get so many negative comments towards you. Please, please, please just try to focus on how many people in this blogging community LOVE YOU! There are only few that are cruel and evil and have nothing better to do that to pass wrong judgements about you. They are all just jealous of how AWESOME you are! I always see your kind and thoughtful comments on everyone's blog and it always makes me happy!! I have noticed this past week that they have been MIA and I hope you come back soon! MUCH LOVE! <3; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Debbie said...: Hi Veggie Girl! Okay, I admit I've been a lurker since your dance days and have followed you all through the video series and my momentum is already to the point that I would truly miss you if you weren't here posting. I love your TV series and constantly look forward to the next series/post.

I've recently lost 43 pounds and have another 20 to go. You inspire me to to eat healthy and take care of my body ~ Thank You for being such a bright beautiful beacon.

I love this quote:

I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. Bill Cosby

Continue to be true to yourself dear one, you're such a blessing and don't you forget it.

Blessings - Debbie; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Lindsay said...: hi veggie girl. I also want to be a bit honest, and I hope things improve for you. I don't have a blog because I am a very busy college student and mainly read blogs for fun and to get ideas for recipes and meal ideas. When I started reading your blog, i loved seeing your creative recipes, baking projects and product reviews. I understand you have gotten lots of negative comments for whatever reason, but it seems like the more you acknowledge these people the more they strike back at you. With that said, I think its time you bury the hatchet and go back to blogging about what you are truly passionate about, and what other food bloggers want to read. I think explaining some of your health problems was the right thing to do, and I am sorry that people do not understand and continue to harass you. However, it seems your blog has become a place where you vent about stress, school and negativity (even if it has been just a couple of posts). I would say take a break and try to stick to upbeat topics, and try your best to ignore negativity because you asking people to stop probably will not result in 100% positive comments all the time. Also, I think it would help if you opened up your comments and didn't regulate them. I fully support deleting terrible comments (like Kath does) but "approving" comments seems to defeat the purpose of a blog, even if it is YOUR blog. Because lets be honest, people are not always going to say exactly what you want to hear ... "YAY awesome post veggie girl!" etc. I believe if you are going to be a true blogger you should absolutely delete mean comments, but still show some comments that show a different viewpoint. Best of luck, and thanks for listening :)
Lindsay; Saturday, May 02, 2009
balancemycake said...: Hey Veggiegirl, great video, as usual! I noticed that you always comment (usually first!) on SO many blogs, and that takes so much time! It's so appreciated, and you're so loved in the blogworld! All of us out there that appreciate you completely understand your need for a break once and awhile, it's completely normal! Forget all the haters out there, I know sometimes it's hard...I've only gotten one bad comment and it stung, so I can't imagine many. Keep your chin up Miss, you ROCK!!! :); Saturday, May 02, 2009
OhSheGlows said...: I'm so very proud of you! I support you 100%. Honestly if you are missing out on things in the 'real world' you have to do what is best for you hun. I certainly WANT you to have that freedom!

And might I add I simply can't get enough of your dry humour!! Love it. Love you girl!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Anonymous said...: Hi Veggie Girl,

I just recently got interested in blogs and blogging after being introduced to blogs in my Educational Technology class. I came across your blog, and watched your Veggie Girl TV. I looked around your blog and saw the list of blogs you follow, and counted them. I counted 342 blogs!!! That seems like way too many blogs to follow and comment on. My advice to you is that it would be extremely good for you to cut back on your blog commenting. There is so much more to life than internet networking. Any more than a couple of hours per day on the computer probably isn't very healthy. You seem like a really nice person and I wish you all the best in life.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Heather said...: I am so sorry that there have been some hurtful comments about you on other blogs... I didn't see them - but how incredibly disappointing. I think it's so sad that bloggers can't be supportive of each other. And -- I think you should take as much time for yourself as necessary. I just hope it stops for you - because I know how hard it can be to hear negativity about yourself. It's just not fun :(; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Kristen's Raw said...: Hi VeggieGirl,

I love your blog and I love your comments, but I love you even more. I want nothing more than to have you in the best of health, happy, and stress free. I'm so excited that you're taking a stand for yourself and taking as much time as you need... even if it's forever.

You're a gorgeous, wickedly smart, sassy, moxie-filled, fun, classy, and beautiful gal. I'm so happy to have you in my life.

Uuumm... I LOVE THAT NECKLACE!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!!!!!!!!

Cheers,
Kristen; Saturday, May 02, 2009
The Healthy Hostess said...: Veggie Girl!
You are the most thoughtful and genuine girl ever! Keep being your wonderful self! You know we all love you and appreciate you constant support each and every day!
:) Ali; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Melomeals: Vegan for $3.33 a Day said...: I'm sorry people have been such assholes!... don't even worry about commenting or posting blog posts.. seriously... Do what makes you happy and screw the haters!

I have seemed to develop my own haters over the last several months and I know it is stressful. I have pulled back a bit from the blogosphere...

Hang in there and you are fabulous! Don't let anyone tell you differently.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Lauren said...: Hi Liz!

First of all big hugs!! I wish I could just give you a big ole hug in person! I love your honesty and your courage to speak your mind. Blogging should not be about pressure and stress, it's something fun we do in our spare time. Don't let anyone ever bring you down on the computer. People who hide behind a computer screen to speak there mind are pathetic, cowardly, losers. Please do NOT feel bad about not commenting. I don't have a blog for comments, I do it for community, to learn, and to teach. My goal is not getting 1000 comments on every post. I truely appreciate your comments, but seriously, do NOT let it stress you out. I (and hopefully everyone else) totally understand. :) Big hugs!!; Saturday, May 02, 2009
Ginny said...: Wow! I don't understand why people are such jerks to you! You are so sweet and wonderful! Take all the time that you need...I've gone through times when I've just needed to take some time off.; Saturday, May 02, 2009
veggirldancer said...: Hi Veggie Girl! I love the video. Sometimes you just have to make a change. I have enjoyed reading your blog, and am happy you were able to let go of the stress you were feeling. You have a great attitude about everything. The most important thing is that you do what feels right for you and what makes you happy - it's your life and not anyone else's. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you!! :); Sunday, May 03, 2009
andrea said...: hello, vg.
sometimes, i visit your blog to see those nice baking posts ; ) and stuff, but this is the first time i comment.

i know people can write down stupid comments and that's because their ignorant; don't let the negative comments hurt your feelings when those guys don't even know what they're saying.

hope things get better..
and i think you should pay attention to more important things (than blogging).; Sunday, May 03, 2009
HangryPants said...: Wow! I had no idea people were being THAT negative toward you. It's ridiculous!!!! Please please don't ever worry about not commenting on my blog, watch a good movie instead.

Whenever I start to feel guilty thay I am not posting or commenting enough Mark puts it in perspective for me! It's about quality, not quantity.

Also, you do SOOOOOO much for the blogging community. I think you were the first person to comment on Hangry Pants and encouraged both Mark and I to stick with our first meatless experiement. I thank you for that and you know, I am still pretty much meatless! I've tried countless products because of you as well! Hello medjool dates!!!!! Anyway, please continue blogging in the way that best suits you.

Good luck with finals!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Vaala said...: Hey, I haven't commented in, well, a long time so I guess I ought to delurk. Why is it that commenting can feel so stressful? I don't understand but for some reason it does. Am I worried I might offend someone? Am I always trying to say the "right" thing instead of what I think? I don't know but I what you're saying totally. Blogging is for fun...or, well, it should be anyway!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Skinnymum said...: Liz,

Just realised the many typo errors in my earlier comment. This is what lack of sleep do to me. I corrected typos comment is as follows;

I am so sorry to hear about this. Can't imagine that there are such horrible people out there.

Even though I don't comment often, I read each and every one of your posts. You have inspired me to start eating proper meals, and kick-start my journey in vegan cooking and baking. I will always be grateful to you!

Even though I don't know you personally I felt your care and concern for me. Your support during my laxative and self-imposed non-eating days, will never be forgotten. I always hope that we would get to meet-up one day, either when I visit the States or when you come to Malaysia.

Frankly, I hope that you will continue to blog, but more importantly I want you to be happy. Do whatever that makes you happy.............

Take Care!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Becky said...: Hey VeggieGirl! I'm a "delurker" for this post because I think it is important to say something (and I apologize if someone said it already-I admit I'm not reading through the comments above.)

I read many blogs on a daily basis, and for a while I would read and participate in the comments. Then I realized that it was just taking up so much of my time! I decided a long time ago that I wasn't going to comment unless I really felt like I had something to contribute or say. I don't have a blog, so I don't feel guilty by having to "return the favor" of commenting. Just like you said that people were posting on their own blogs just to post something, you don't have to comment just to comment. Don't ever feel guilty for taking time for your self. Everyone can understand that, and those friends that you've made through the blog world will. Enjoy your newly found free time!

Becky; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Tina said...: Wow, I missed all of that drama on MizFit's blog and your blog. I'm sorry that happened. People can be such jerks sometimes! I'm glad that you are taking a little time away from the blog. A hiatus might be just what you need to inspire and energize your blogging spirit once again. Of course, if you need anything, don't hesitate to drop me an email.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Rebeca @All Vegged Out said...: I love your blog (and you)... you inspire me... I know you'll do what you think is best for you.

I'm so sorry that you had to go through so much hate... As one of the sweetest, most thoughtful bloggers (people!) out there, you don't deserve that!

Take care!
R; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Emily said...: Loved the cute intro from VeggieDad.

Negative commenters have no business being on your blog. I am so sorry that people are cruel and insensitive. It makes me angry because I really enjoy your blog.

I agree 100% with the posting issue. Why should we feel so much pressure to post? Life is too short not to enjoy things outside the blogworld.

I really hope you to continue blogging, even if it's sporadic and even if you don't have much time to comment.

Honesty and being balanced are things I really value, too. :-)

Best wishes in whatever you decide, Liz!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
sarah said...: i liked the bluntness! i completely respect the decision to only selectively comment -- i often wondered how you had the time to comment SO much! don't worry, your readers won't go anywhere -- we LOVE the delicious food pictures and recipes, plus your spirit.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Myrte said...: Hey Veggiegirl!

Just wanted to let you know I'm a regular reader of your blog but never comment... but I wanted to let you know I always tremendously enjoy everything you do on your blog! I'm not active in the blogging community (just reading:) so while I noticed you got some very hurtful and mean comments, I had no idea it got this out of hand. No one should have to deal with this, esp. not you since I have never seen you anything other than extremely nice and friendly. I do think that the amount of blogs you read is enormous, and I wouldn't want it to get in the way with the rest of your life! So don't forget to enjoy yourself, no matter what other people say.

Love,

Myrte; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Kim said...: Hi VG! I nomianted you for "An Attitude of Gratitude" award.

http://tinyurl.com/cclcge; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Dawn said...: I can see your frustration. Sorry you have to go through that. I've been thinking about taking a break too as I was just recently the victim of someone stealing my recipes and photos and posting them on their website without any credit back to me. This has made me literally NOT want to post. I work so hard at creating my own recipes and taking good photos just for someone to steal them.
I'm still at a loss on what to do, how to cope, etc. I've taken some security measures, but I need to take more and quite honestly it's all so time consuming and frustrating as all I want to do is cook and share my gift with the world.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
happyherbivore.com said...: CLAP CLAP CLAP! HUGS XXOO; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Anonymous said...: blogging and commenting is your daily ritual.

it is up to YOU. you are your own actions. do not take this out on fellow bloggers. i think you are contradicting yourself here by saying its okay to nost post everyday.

im sorry to sound harsh. but i really love your blog and your baked goods.

keep on posting.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Claudia said...: I'm a longtime lurker, and I love your blog! I can understand your decision 100%. Please don't force yourself to do blog posts if you don't feel like it - I would rather read high quality posts once a week (like those you are already writing!) than boring, uninspired posts every day.
All the best, Claudia; Sunday, May 03, 2009
ellie said...: awesome post Liz- when blogging tips into being a stressful chore rather than a leisurely past-time, a break is much needed. And much deserved! You give SO much to the blogging community and I'm sorry you have been subjected to...well, to put it bluntly, bullying. It's cruel, unnecessary and unfair beyond believe.

Life is short- live it as YOU choose to. I'll keep reading cause I think your blog is great and you have lots of fab things to say/share.

Enjoy your hiatus and good luck with finals!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
elise said...: veggiegirl you are so great. screw the haters and ignore their negative comments bc thats just insecurity manifested in an ugly way. so sorry you had to deal with that ESPECIALLY on your bday and at the end of the semester.

you are a fabulous blogger and virtual friend and i hope you can embrace all the positive support and ignore the rest (i know thats easier said than done).

anyways, how did the court thing go? i rememebr you had an entire day of it, and i was so curious about how you enjoyed it or didnt...

btw, your dads voice sounded JUST like yours - so cute!!

and one final thing. i loved the necklace and outfit - you are one stylista liz!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Liz² said...: hey Liz, you're an inspiration for all the energy you put into all you do, and I'm so glad you've had this time for yourself lately - sometimes I wondered if you did take time to relax, and you really deserve it. I can't believe people have been negative (I missed all of that), but they're dumb, because you're clearly beautiful and awesome and full of heart.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
shellyfish said...: Oh Sweetie- I can't believe all the negativity you've been dealing with. I have no idea why people who have nothing better to do spread their sadness...just ignore them. They represent such a small little minority. We love you, love the joy and postive energy you send out over the net and through your comments on our blogs.
Take a break, regroup, refresh and take stock. We'll be here when you come back because we love you!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
sweet26 said...: i love this post! i love your honesty, love that you're speaking your mind, and doing what makes you happy. i miss your comments, but your happiness/ mental well-being is much more important...and so i'm happy you're taking this time to recharge and do other things you enjoy! i also agree with what you about forced posts- i've been noticing that a lot lately, and it's really disheartening to see people get caught up in "other" reasons for blogging. have a great week miss veggie girl and rock those finals!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Sophie said...: I COMPLETELY understand. In fact, that's why I've taken a break :). I am also cutting back, for similar reasons -- thankfully, I haven't had negative feedback, but we all do need a break (I can't believe people have been so rude to you--you're so sweet!!). Blogging is supposed to be fun, totally, couldn't' agree with that more. I don't think you're selfish at all; you work hard in school and definitely deserve a break. Don't feel the need to comment on my blog, seriously! :)

Yeah for Edward Cullen crushes ;)!!!

I'm looking forward to hearing more about the books, especially the gf one, very cool.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Jes said...: I can't believe you've been given so many hurtful comments! You've been nothing but wonderful and supportive to the blog community. Keep taking time indefinitely, your health and happiness are far more important than anything else, but when you do decide to post recipes and reviews I'll be very happy to read them!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Lori said...: Wow, I've taken a blog hiatus myself due to travel and had no idea about those comments. That is horrible! It is so frustrating to me how people use the cover of the web to be so mean to others. I see it a lot and I'm not quite sure what makes bloggers less human to them. All I know is that I would absolutely hate to live with or work with those people in person.

Take care of yourself. You are loved! And get away from the computer! :) It is easy to get caught up in blogs and allow them take over. I'm so glad you are taking a break. I tend to take a lot. I can only handle so much computer time. Whether I lose readers or not my health and sanity are more important. ;); Sunday, May 03, 2009
Anneliese said...: Veggiegirl, you are wonderful! Take as much time off from commenting as you want--it's your life and you should be as happy as you can be! I appreciate your honesty and have always enjoyed reading your blog and seeing your presence on other blogs. Blogging should be fun, not stressful. Take all the time you need & I can't wait for your next post! :-); Sunday, May 03, 2009
Sandy said...: Sound's like you need a break..it's horrible that you've had to deal with those comment's..

To be honest~Jerk's who write rude comment's,don't care what you or anyone say..they will continue to be rude, insensitive people..they have no conscience, and don't care if they hurt people..so I'm not sure if your message will help..Other than, it let's the rest of us faithful reader's know what garbage you put up with..I'm so sorry..it's so wrong!!

Take care of yourself..; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Kristi @ Sweet Cheeks said...: Liz, I love ya girl! I'm so glad that you have enjoyed this week and that is has been much less stressful. I hope next week is a great one for you, too! Again, I'm so sorry that you have had to put up with negative people, because you certainly don't deserve it all. I of course, would love for you to still continue with your blog and VeggieGirl tv, but I'll support you with whatever makes YOU happy!

Hope you are enjoying your Sunday! :); Sunday, May 03, 2009
flower said...: I have been reading (and watching) your blog for a while, but Ive never commented (you always have so many to read) but this time I thought I would. Its so sad that you have to put up with crap like that with your inspiarional post and supportive comments its seems odd that people would do that.
I like your necklace too; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Balance, Joy and Delicias! said...: I watched this video twice and listening carefully what you said about your hiatus, the negativity, the stress that blog brought to you. First I want to say: I really like you girl!!! really!! I mean it! I love your sincerity, I love you being nice to all of us, I love how much effort you've put in your blog and in everyone else blog. you were one of my first readers, and because of your comments my blog grew up. And I really don't get the negativity of some people to you, why would they do that? you're so nice and cute, how is possible that someone don't like you. I don't get it!
Anyway, I'm so happy for you that you took the right decision to take away from the blog world for a while, and not forced yourself to comment, you don't have to, really don't do it unless you feel like it. And also, yes, enjoy others greats things in life, because as you said, life is short and we really need to enjoy it.
love~~~
and oh... I DO want to keep watching video posts (especially with veggie Dad appearing sometime) and without the dishwasher running if it's possible! ;); Sunday, May 03, 2009
carolyn said...: hey veggie girl,
we all support you! enjoy your hiatus and take some veggie time!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Heather said...: I'm so sorry that some people have been so rude to you lately. Blogging should be seen as a gift, passion, enjoyment, and means of healing. Some people just take blogging the wrong way and use it as a means of cutting others down to make themselves feel good. I started blogging as a way of sharing my passion of healthy eating and living after recovering from an eating disorder. I wanted to connect with others who had similar passions and lifestyles. Although it is a little different, I understand how you feel... I have basically been shunned at school after struggling with anorexia, and EVERY LAST ONE of my peers at school still treat me terribly, gossiping, saying negative comments, and shunning me, even though I am now fully recovered. I have grown and matured so much through recovery that I feel no connection to others my own age (17), and blogging was and is a way for me to connect with wonderful people with my own interests. I hate to even hear that people are turning it into something negative. I hope you can see past all the negative comments and realize that there are still those of us out there that aim to blog as blogging should be done! Also, I hope you read my comment on your last post and made you feel a bit better. Stay strong!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Christina said...: That's horrible about the negativity! Sorry to hear about that!

I've stopped by your blog a few times and you've left a couple on mine, and I think that's fine. My feelings won't be hurt if I don't think you read each and every one of my posts - it'd be impossible to keep up with that! I wouldn't expect that of anybody and I think others are the same way.

I think it's like you said- all about balance. Find the balance that works in your life and stick to what makes you happy! If htat means missing some posts, or not commenting I KNOW others will understand!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Brooke (HomegirlCanEat) said...: Hi VeggieGirl! I just started my own blog a couple days ago but have been reading yours for so long and have seen your name and all your baked goods all over the blogworld! I'm sorry to hear about the negativity but there will always be people trying to ruin your game out there so good for you to reflect and remind yourself how much happiness and friends blogging has brought you! I can't believe people can be so rude especially with how much love you give blogworld! I hope you have a relaxing hiatus!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Danica's Daily said...: Hi Veggie Girl!!! Awww, I feel so bad that you have had so much negativity ~ that is just plain wrong. I absolutely agree that you have to be able to live life and find balance. Blogging should be for you and should be for fun, but, it shouldn't be your only world. I know I struggle with that since I started blogging - I used to just be a reader only :)

Good for you for taking a stand, but, more importantly for not feeling bad about living life.

I LOVE your blog and do hope you continue with it. But, if not, I know it is because sometimes real life is just way more fun :)

*Hugs* Hang in there ~ Danica; Sunday, May 03, 2009
cook4seasons said...: Dearest VG,
By the looks of 162 comments and counting, you have a totally supportive network which I truly hope you celebrate. Good for you to recognize when its time to focus on YOU and getting balance back into your life. You are too young for all the crap - there are many years ahead for that - trust me:)
Recently I, too, have had to reassess since going back to school and trying to keep up with even the regular postings. So I'm not making myself crazy by doing it more than I am ABLE.
Keep the faith, watch movies, read books, and certainly do the most therapeutic of all: baking!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
greendogwine said...: Oh honey! I'm so sorry you had to deal with all the negativity, but I'm so glad you took the proper steps to not let it drag you down. Let those others be "haters" (lol, love that word) - they are just trying to pull you down to their level. I'm so glad you got to enjoy you free time more with your hiatus - do what MAKES YOU happy, and all the real friends that care about you will be happy as well! I love the blog, and don't want it to go anywhere, but I especially don't ever want our Whole Food trips to stop (as sporadic as they may be!!!!) Love you, stay strong!!!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Jessica C said...: Hi VeggieGirl..I'm a new reader and I love your blog. I do hope the blog continues, but you have to do what makes you happy. Stay strong!!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Victoria said...: I totally support your hiatus. Take as much time as you need, and take care of yourself!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Runeatrepeat said...: I had no idea about all the negative comments. Good for you for speaking your mind.; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Kirby! said...: dude, you totally don't need to apologize for not commenting! i see your comments so often on the blogosphere that i've often wondered where on earth you get the time! now it makes sense: you usually don't have time to watch movies, or read, or do what you enjoy! that's just not right. unless blogging is your actual job, it shouldn't be a job! feel free to take a PERMANENT commenting hiatus, if you want to! if that makes people angry, they are idiots and not the kind of people you want to have a relationship with anyway. and i'm sure you know this, but those who make negative comments could not be more transparent about being miserable with themselves. yeesh.

so, yes, keep rockin on! screw the haters, and just remember that the rest of us got mad love for Veggiegirl!!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
AshleyP said...: Hi! As you requested I want to de (un?) lurk and say I support you in your hiatus. Please do what is best for you and know that you have a loyal fan base no matter what! You're gorgeous and kind- do yor best to try and ignore the crazies. Good luck with your exams and take care!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Mrs. LC said...: Beautiful Liz, I totally commend you for what you are doing. If there is every ANYTHING in your life that makes you stressed and takes away from the quality of life you are able to lead and the experiences you can have, we all need to learn to re-evaluate those things! Life is short so why waste time doing things we don't enjoy?

And forget the naysayers. This is your life and those of us who truly love you for YOU will understand whatever decisions you make, even if you one day decide to stop blogging all together (obviously we'd miss you, but would still love ya and have the utmost respect for you).

You are a beautiful inspiration dear Liz, I pray you find many more activities that bring you passion, joy, life and FUN while you continue your hiatus. :); Sunday, May 03, 2009
ashley (sweetandnatural) said...: I've already said it, but ENJOY your hiatus! And take as long as you need. You're a joy to the blogging community and should feel free to do what is right for you. Hugs! :-); Sunday, May 03, 2009
Ricki said...: No apologies necessary--we all need a break once in a while! Those negative comments sounded awful! And the fact that you felt so much less stress during the pat week should tell you that it was the right decision.

That said, of course we want you to continue blogging! But as you said, it really should be FUN. Do what makes you happy, and your readers will be here when you return. :)

Good luck on all those finals!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Claire said...: First of all, I can tell that you are daughter of Veggie Dad...y'all have the same vocal mannerisms! Secondly, you keep doing what you need to do. I have had those thoughts of "I have to comment" but then I realized that was kind of silly. When I come home from 12 hours at the hospital, I shouldn't feel obligated to go to all the blogs I tend to read and comment...this should be something fun and enjoyable. So, if not commenting is what you need to do to continue enjoying blogging...go for it, girl!; Sunday, May 03, 2009
Ryan said...: Good for you for being so honest!! You definitely seem much less stressed in this VGTV episode than in others, despite the seriousness of it! That's awesome :)

I too have taken a break from commenting all of the time and blog reading is MUCH more fun now. I've also stopped posting as much and am contemplating a new direction with my blog as well so I totally understand how you are feeling!

I'm so sorry you're getting negative comments...you put your heart and soul into blogging and you deserve more than your fair share of respect! Keep up the wonderful work, relax and live life to the fullest :); Sunday, May 03, 2009
Bec said...: aww veggie girl I can't believe that people could be so mean to such a sweet girl with such a great blog like you! I totally understand that you need to step back from everything for a bit, it definitely sounds like you need a break. You are such a sweetie try not to let ridiculous ppl in the world to get you down :D good luck with finals!
ps glad you enjoyed twilight!; Monday, May 04, 2009
redheadedjournal said...: Wonderful video!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Neela Marijana said...: hey liz,
i am so happy to hear you say all these words. i feel like i can relate to you so much. i know what you mean about how the blogging world can be really hurtfull and especially disrespectful. i just wanted to tell you that you should not let yourself be put down by some people who have nothing better to do in life than to post some nasty comments on other's blogs. these people are just rude and bored with themselves. you are a wonderful person and i am so happy to read your blog and apprechiate all the effort that you have put into making it. listen to yourself and do what you want to do. this is your life, your blog. if idiots find it and post on it, well then let them do so. this world sadly has so many people that just have no idea about manners and behaviour. but i know for sure that you are a great person and that there is nothing wrong with you.
have a great day and i am sending all the strength that i carry with me
xxx; Monday, May 04, 2009
Caitlin at Healthy Tipping Point said...: hey girl! i just got to watch your vid because i was on vacay. you are wonderful and i really do not understand negative commentors. i love you!! stay strong. :); Monday, May 04, 2009
eatingbirdfood said...: I couldn't agree more with what you said in the video. Blogging and reading blogs should be something fun in your life. Not a JOB that you feel that you HAVE to do or something that brings negativity to your life. I think it's great that instead of feeling obligated to comment you are taking the extra time to enjoy life and do things you normally didn't have time to do.

I think lots of bloggers feel the same and only read and comment when they have time.. DON'T feel bad about it :)

Sending lots of love your way!!; Monday, May 04, 2009
JohannaB said...: I am officially delurking. I love your blog. Reading it has helped me decide eat more fresh and unprocessed foods. I like the baking posts and pictures of your adventures. I also love Veggie Girl TV". Please continue to inspire us with your "real" live. Thanks from Topeka, KS.; Monday, May 04, 2009
iowagirleats said...: Ditch the haters - you rock!!! You can't let negative people influence your life - it'll drive you insane. More easily said than done, I realize, but there are a lot of crazy people in the world - and you just really can't let them get in your ears. You've got so much positive support here - no worries!!!!; Monday, May 04, 2009
PureBarVeronica said...: Thanks for being real w us! Remember negativity springs from jealousy and insecurity. There are also alot of weirdos out there that are just trying to get a reaction. Be real, enjoy yourself, don't feel pressure to perform for others, do what gives you joy. You already done amazings things:); Monday, May 04, 2009
Brandi said...: I had no clue any of this was happening, and I'm so sorry that you've had to deal with such negativity lately.

I hope that the hiatus keeps treating you well, that you can relax and get stuff done that YOU want to do and just enjoy it. You're right - life is too short :)

Good luck with your finals this week! i know you'll be happy to have those done soon :); Monday, May 04, 2009
Edith said...: Hey! You're awesome, but don't stress! Like you said - life's too short!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Anne Marie said...: Delurking time!

Good for you for taking time off. I had no idea that people were making negative comments about you-it's ridiculous!

In any event, I find you inspirational, and look forward to many more episodes of veggie tv.; Monday, May 04, 2009
Yvette said...: I don't have much to say that hasn't already been said -- so I am chiming in to echo all of the support being sent your way.

Don't let the empty people in the world tear you down and take something that is yours away from you to make themselves feel better.

If you want to comment -- do it and if you don't -- don't. But make the decisions you want to make. And I am sorry for how scary this must have been for you.

Anyhoo -- you're a winner!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Mihl said...: It makes me sad to see you so upset. I am really, really sorry that you get all that negativity and I really don't understand why people do this.
Personally, I don't expect you to comment on my posts all the time. Don't misunderstand me, I love your comments and I am always delighted to see one on my blog. I am happy about every comment I get but I also understand that you, like other people, have a life. You are such a nice person, you always put so much energy and passion into things and I'd love to see your blog continued.; Monday, May 04, 2009
Emily said...: I'm so happy for you and your decision to take a break - you work really hard and are always such a positive addition to the blog world. I can definitely understand the feelings of obligation regarding posting and I recently re-tooled the way I'm going about blogging myself in a way that is less demanding and constricting.

I hope that you can put aside the negative comments that are WAY off base and start to feel better again about blogging.; Monday, May 04, 2009
Julie said...: VeggieGirl you are amazing! VeggieGirl TV makes me sooo happy :-) Just wanted to say that noone should compromise doing the things they love, and noone should put up with being harrassed like that. So great decision you made!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Jen said...: Hi VeggieGirl! I have been reading your blog for a while now but have never commented before. I'm not sure why you feel you have to comment on every post your fellow bloggers make, and although I don't blog myself, I can see how tiring that can be! You shouldn't feel like you need to comment on every post, so I say you should take a break from that indefinitely, or until you feel like you really want to.
I also haven't read many negative comments about you, but I guess with more exposure comes more negativity. I think your blog is great and I enjoy reading your posts. I know it's hard to ignore the negative comments you get, but just know that there is something wrong with these people, not with you. I hope you keep up your blog!; Monday, May 04, 2009
SnowKat said...: VeggieGirl -

I am officially delurking !

I had no idea what was going on... I thought the blog world was filled with tons of positive reinforcement & good thoughts. I was sorry to see how rude & thoughtless people have been of respecting your time & willingness to put yourself out there.

I watch your videos each week & I would LOVE to see you continue your blog. It's bc of you I started using SunWarrior & am TOTALLY thrilled to have found such a wonderful product that is so perfect for me. I am glad to hear that you took a break from all the craziness. Please don't go away! :) We all appreciate all that you do... Keep up the good work. ~SnowKat ^ ^; Monday, May 04, 2009
just me said...: Rock on babe. you deserve to be treated with respect and not have to deal w/ that kind of crap. i'm glad that you're able to catch up on some other things you've been missing out on like your yoga, books and movies...sounds great!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Maria said...: Loved the video! You are amazing! I am SO glad you are taking time for YOU! You deserve and need it. Don't let the blogging world get ya down. I love bloggng but sometimes it is good to take a break. And do your blog for you, not everyone else. I love everything you said!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Amanda said...: Hi Veggiegirl,

I have never commented before but I just thought I would say that I am someone who reads (does not have my own) blogs and only comments when I feel I have something to add to a conversation or have a question. It has kept reading blogs fun and something that I do if I have spare time, not something that I stress about or will prioritize over socializing or relaxing in other ways. The fact that blogging/commenting has become such a chore for you is a sign that this hiatus is a good idea :) I am sure that all of your comments are appreciated, but YOU come first in your world!! Be good to yourself! And for those negative commenters, I have no idea what kind of satisfaction they get from such behavior, but it's pretty twisted. Karma's a bitch (and you are NOT)! Good luck with finals!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Kelly said...: Wow. I feel so out of the loop. I had NO idea you were being targeted by so many negative things. I can absolutely see why that would take so much out of you! I think the upside though is that you're learning to listen to yourself and put your needs first. As women I think we have a tendency to think about everyone else first so it can feel selfish to want to prioritize yourself. However I think this is good!!! It's taken me a lot of time with a therapist to be able to do so for myself and am glad you were able to reach that conclusion on your own!!!; Monday, May 04, 2009
Kaley said...: Hi, I really don't post or comment on blogs that much, but I wanted to let you know that I do think you are a very nice woman who does a lot of good in the blogging community.

I was kind of confused at first, though, as to why you always commented on like every blog! I was like, this girl is a machine! No one could comment that much without, I don't know, passing out from exhaustion. I sort of understand now, but I think a hiatus will do you good - it can't be that fun all the time.; Monday, May 04, 2009
Aimee said...: Thanks for being honest. I thought of you this morning when I saw that Gluten free diet book on the View. I had no idea that Elisabeth had celiac disease.; Monday, May 04, 2009
dailydulcie said...: You are in no way a veggie bitch. You are a totally sweetheart & I respect you immensely. I am SO GLAD you have taken a commenting hiatus to have time to truly relax without any stress! It’s wonderful to have some time for yourself!!!

I’m so sorry that you have been dealing with negative comments. You do not deserve that at all.

I hope you are having a splendid day VeggieGirl. Keep the videos coming.. I enjoy watching you!!; Monday, May 04, 2009
dawn said...: another de-lurker :) i want you to know that i totally respect and understand your decision to take a commenting hiatus. i follow alot of blogs, but rarely comment... just because i feel like if i become a regular commenter then i'll have that guilt when i don't have time or don't feel like commenting on a post. it's sad when something that is supposed to be enjoyable causes unnecessary stress in your life. so keep enjoying your hiatus!; Monday, May 04, 2009